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1. To find love, let go of your past
You may want to find love, but maybe you are not totally able to let go of your past mis-adventures. You must learn to get over the past failed relationships, and move on psychologically. Believe that your past relationship is over and don't let the ghosts of the past haunt you. You must be ready to open your heart to new relationships. Else all your efforts at finding new love shall be wasted.
2. Learn from your mistakes
It is important to forgive yourself and others for the past mistakes, wrong-doings and failures. However, don't forget, experience is a great teacher. Make it a point to learn from your past mistakes. It will help you evolve and mature. It will also help you as you find love in the present and increase your chances at a successful and fulfilling relationship in the future.
3. Be yourself and find your ideal mate
To find love, it is important to be yourself. You cannot find love, by putting up a front to impress someone or by being someone you are not. Let people see the real you. And let someone love the person you are. Let your prospective partners see what you stand for; your beliefs, your likes or dislikes and your ideals etc. Only then will they appreciate you and show you their true colors. This will help you find the one you truly deserve.
4. Learn to recognize what you want
While it is important to be yourself to find love, it is also important to have some idea of what you want in your ideal mate. This need not be set in stone, and can always change or evolve. However, some clarity on this aspect will help you recognize your ideal partner when you meet one. Else while you date various people, you might find yourself getting confused about who is right for you. To find love, find yourself first.
5. Love can be around the corner
Be open to the possibility of finding love. You can find love anywhere. Don't restrict yourself to age old ideas of where you can find love. Love is no longer restricted to singles bars, clubs, family dinners or parties or even blind dates. In this day and age of the global web, love could be across seven oceans in another continent or just across the lane. E-love is the latest buzz word. So what are you waiting for? Take your love-life in your hands!