Signs Of A Failing Relationship

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Love is one of the most powerful emotions one can experience in life. Unconditional, yet loaded with pitfalls. It can brings us to the highest highs and the lowest lows. Overwhelmed in the bliss of love, most relationships start out rather passionately. The novelty of having a deep connection with someone consumes the soul and you both find yourself utterly enamored. As the relationship blossoms you will discover new and exciting things about each other until eventually your relationship will plateau. Depending on the relationship the "honey moon" stage can last anywhere from 2 months to 2 years, but at some point things will level out. This is perfectly natural as it healthy to settle down to allow time for other obligations in life.

As sad as this sound it isn't necessarily a bad thing, couples should have other interests and not fully rely on each other for complete happiness. The challenge is to keep your relationship alive and interesting during this leveling out stage. If you're not careful about refreshing the passion, you may be looking at a straight drive down disaster street.

Warning Signs:-
1:-Your partner starts to act oddly and spends more time hanging out with friends instead of you.
They spend a lot of time talking about people they have recently met, but you haven't.
2:-You find you're drifting apart, not spending as much time together.
3:-You sometimes have a feeling that your partner is trying to disconnect themselves from you.
4:-Your partner shows extreme signs of moodiness - super happy at one point and totally miserable at other times for absolutely no reason.
5:-You have a gut feeling the size of a watermelon in your stomach like something is going horribly wrong?