All About Orgasms

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Most people view an orgasm as the final result to having a great sexual experience and it is important to understand that if you focus on each other more than the pleasure will follow. We want look at making each other happy and enjoy being together and then having a great climax orgasm will come naturally.

It is also important that we know how to define an orgasm so we know whether we have had one or not. Men and women are different when is comes to having an orgasm because form a physical standpoint we are talking about different parts of the body that have different functions. From a psychological angle they are similar because they both have a release that both men and women will experience.

It is easier for a man to tell if he has had an orgasm because when he does it is used for a reproductive function. But with a woman it can be harder to tell because there are a lot of mental emotions that go along with having an orgasm. True there is a sensation that we have with the blood rushing to the sexual part of our body but with that alone for women can fall short of climax. Having a true orgasm is like climbing a mountain and getting to the peak. It always you a sense of release that is felt in no other way.

It is important that when you are having a sexual encounter that you should enjoy the moment and make sure that you do not over think having an orgasm. In many cases this can cause you to be to concerned and you may fall short of your goal. Just relax and be yourself and you will have a very satisfying sexual experience.