Is It Real Love or Are you Wasting Your Time?

Saturday, March 8, 2008

Why Online Dating is so Appealing:

So why exactly is dating online so alluring? Though the reasons vary for everyone, majority of people tend to find themselves looking for love online because it is mysterious and allows them to really be in touch with their fantasies, as well making it possible (at least for a short while) make all their romantic dreams come true. When you first meet a person online, you can create this whole character of what the other person is like, whether they really are like that or not. You can create this whole romantic situation that you normally would not find outside on the social scene with other people around. Meeting someone online is like a small private romantic world you create for yourself and this is one of the main reasons people feel so seduced by the whole net-dating idea.

Top 3 signs You are Wasting Your Time:

1. The person you met online hesitates to give you a picture of him or her after a reasonable period of time.
2. You find out you have been given the wrong name< style="font-weight: bold;">Top 3 Signs It’s Worth Your Time:

The person you met online is honest and open about who he/she is and gives you honest names and pictures
1. Is eager to get together with you as much as possible in person after a reasonable amount of time (when you both feel ready and comfortable)
2. Stops browsing the dating sites for other people after meeting you: If you are looking for serious love and the person claims to really like you and is truly interested in forming a relationship with you, then he/she will no longer feel the need to explore “other fish in the sea”.
3. One more major thing you must always remember to stay in touch with is your instincts. Many people ignore their instincts, telling themselves that they are just being paranoid or picky- they rather ignore red flags instead of face the truth because they so want to believe that they have found true love. Do yourself a favor and trust that inner voice inside you- your best friend who will never lie to you. Do not lower your standards and never settle for less out of fear of being alone